This guest post is from Rebecca Dattilo, Regent Law 3L:
1. Execute a will. This is an opportunity for you to expressly lay out your wishes for how you would like your property to be distributed and who you would like your property to be distributed to. While serving as the personal representative of my dad’s estate, I tried to make decisions based off of what my dad would have wanted- would he have thought this was a reasonable price to sell a vehicle? would he have actually wanted to sell his property to this person? would he have made this charitable donation? is this how he would have wanted me to manage the estate’s assets? A will can avoid this confusion, and provide a sense of relief and peace of mind for your family as your actual wishes will be carried out.
2. Have those tough conversations with family members about how you would like to be remembered. I regret that my dad and I never discussed what his death might look like, as I had to make guesses about where he would have wanted to be buried, what songs he wanted played at his funeral, whether he desired a religious celebration of his life. These types of wishes can also be set out and placed in a document, in addition to your will and will serve as an additional guidance to your family.
3. Consider utilizing will substitutes such as trusts, life insurance, POD (payable-on-death) bank accounts, Pension and Retirement plans, and TOD (transfer-on-death) Contracts to protect your estate from falling into probate succession. These methods allow assets to pass to your designated beneficiaries without having to go through the courts. This is yet another way that you can control how you want your property to be distributed and save your family members the headache of paying court costs and attorney fees.
Although it can be quite difficult to create an
estate plan or even to discuss death with your loved ones, it is worthwhile to
make these formal preparations and have these critical conversations. Your
family will experience great comfort in knowing that your desires will be
executed in your estate’s succession.
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