This guest post is From Hannah Holmes, Regent Law 2L & Family Law student:
Planned Parenthood founder Margaret
Sanger once stated, "Each and every unwanted child is likely to be
in some way a social liability. It is only a wanted child who is likely to be a
social asset." But is that truly the case? Are unwanted children a
social liability?
Time and time again, pro-choice
advocates argue that abortion is necessary to prevent unwanted children from
ending up in a broken system. While the foster care system undoubtedly has
challenges, is it accurate to assume that placing a child for adoption means
they will be lost in the system? The reality is quite the opposite—newborns
placed for adoption are overwhelmingly welcomed into loving homes.
In fact, demand for adoption far exceeds
supply. While the numbers are not exact some studies show that
approximately 2
million couples are actively waiting to specifically adopt a
newborn, yet only 18,000
newborns are voluntarily placed for adoption each year in the United
States.
Furthermore, infertility rates continue to
rise. According to the National
Institute of Child Health and Human Development, 9% of
men and 11% of women (around 3 million women) in the U.S. face
infertility. Women between 18 and 44 with fertility challenges
are four
times more likely to consider adoption as their path to
parenthood. One study even said that about 50%
of women who experience infertility will turn to adoption. This means the
women wanting children will continue to rise.
If you are facing an unplanned
pregnancy, adoption empowers you with choices. Unlike the common
misconception, you have the ability to select the perfect family for
your baby, ensuring they grow up in a loving and stable home. The fear that
a child will be lost in foster care simply does not align with the facts.
The real issue is lack of
information. Many expecting mothers are unaware of their options, believing
that abortion is their only choice. Fortunately, numerous resources exist to
guide and support women in finding the best possible future for their child.
Below are some reputable organizations dedicated to helping mothers make their
next choice and perhaps connect with hopeful families ready to provide love,
stability, and a bright future.
Your choice matters. Your child is
wanted. The perfect family is waiting.
Options for Pregnancy at https://optionsforpregnancy.com/about-us/
Adopt Help at https://www.adopthelp.com/pregnant-we-can-help/
Radiance Foundation at https://radiancefoundation.org/sallyslambs/.
Embrace Grace at https://www.embracegrace.com/about-us/our-story
Birthright at https://birthright.org/learn/
Project Cuddle at https://projectcuddle.org
Adoption for my Baby at https://adoption-for-my-baby.com/adoption-by-state/.