This guest post is offered by Allison Strayer, current Regent Family Law and Professional Responsibility student:
When women were considered property of
their husbands in the days of couverture, a husband could sue someone who stole
his wife and her affections away from him. Emanating from common law, this idea
has been abandoned by most states because of the difficulties in proving such
an action. In fact, there are only seven states that still allow this cause of
action, called “Alienation of Affection.” In contractual terms, Alienation of
Affection is similar to tortious interference, where a third party is held
liable for interfering with the contractual relationship: the marriage. North
Carolina being one of those seven, it has one of the highest judgments for this
legal claim.
In Puryear v. Puryear, ex-wife Carol
Puryear sued mistress (now wife) Betty Carlton (Puryear), claiming that Betty
maliciously contributed to the demise of Carol’s marriage to Donald. 759 S.E.2d
713 (N.C. App. 2014). Carol and Donald were married in 1994. At his father’s
funeral in 2007, he and his ex-fiancé, Betty, reconnected and commenced an
affair. Within months of the affair, Carol moved out and on their anniversary
in 2009, they were divorced. After a four-year process, the North Carolina
Trial Court awarded $10 million in compensatory damages and $20 million in
punitive damages to Carol.
But what actually happens after damages are
awarded to a jilted ex-spouse? Most spouses never see the money awarded to them
because of the lack of resources of the defendant lover; however, there is more
motive to these lawsuits than money. It appears that Carol Puryear just wanted
Betty to be held accountable for ruining her marriage. Cheated spouses sue
primarily to seek revenge and to send a message to thwart extramarital affairs,
particularly when they reside in jurisdictions which do not recognize any cause
of action for fault based divorce in adultery.
If these spouses rarely see their money and
are suing out of pain and vindictiveness, the cost of the lawsuit seems
to fall on the taxpayers for the use of the judicial system to wage these
battles. In light of the time and money spent on making cheated spouses feel
validated with no other legal consequences or remedy, one can see why this
antiquated cause of action is only still around in seven states. North Carolina
law was modified in 2009 to limit the scope of Alienation of Affection claims,
barring any such action if the affair started after the married couple
permanently and physically separated, as well imposing as a three-year statute
of limitations on filing the action.
Family restoration focuses on recovering
and restoring relationships in broken families.
This type of legal claim may bring some satisfaction, but it is hard
pressed to foster family restoration unless confession and forgiveness are part
of the remedy.
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