This guest post is from Courtney Massie, Regent
Law 3L:
Death is a hard thing to face, and talking about death is not much easier; however, it is vital that adult children talk with their parents about the parents’ death. It is not an easy topic to discuss, nor is it one that just casually fits into everyday conversation. It is a sensitive topic, especially with an aging parent. No one wants to think about dying.
I think as children, we all hope that our parents
will die of old age, peacefully. Unfortunately, that is not always the case.
Parents are dying from sickness, or even unexpectedly. The last thing an adult
child wants to do after just losing their parent, is plan a funeral. One of the
greatest, last gifts a parent can leave their child, is to have the funeral
arrangements already made in advance.
An aging parent might not have ever thought about
planning their funeral in advance if their adult child does not mention it. The
parent can meet with the funeral home or his or her church and plan the entire
service from the flowers to the payment. The parent can decide if they want to
be cremated, and if not, they can pick their casket and even tombstone.
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